Prioritized Planning: planning for the essentials for a modest wedding for someone in poverty

Planning a modest wedding on a limited budget while hiring a Universalist pastor can still result in a meaningful and memorable day. Here's a step-by-step guide:

1. Budget-Friendly Venue Options

Local Parks or Beaches: Check for low-cost or free outdoor spaces.

Community Centers: Affordable rental rates and often have amenities.

Backyard Wedding: A friend's or family member’s home can be intimate and cost-effective.

Church or Hall Rentals: Some Universalist pastors may offer reduced rates for affiliated venues.

2. Affordable Universalist Pastor Services

Contact Local Universalist Churches: Many have pastors who may work within your budget.

Explain Your Budget: Some pastors may adjust their fees or provide payment plans.

Unity Path Ministry: Given your nonprofit connection, your network may offer support or suggestions.

3. Simple Ceremony & Decorations

DIY Decorations: Use flowers, candles, and crafts from dollar stores or thrift shops.

Minimalist Theme: Focus on meaningful elements rather than expensive decor.

Family & Friends Help: Many will be happy to assist with setup and creativity.

4. Attire

Secondhand or Rental: Look for affordable wedding dresses and suits at thrift stores or online.

Simplify the Look: Skip expensive accessories and opt for classic, timeless attire.

5. Affordable Food Options

Potluck Reception: Guests can bring dishes to share.

Buffet-Style: Cheaper than plated dinners; caterers often offer budget packages.

DIY Desserts: Bake a simple cake or ask a talented friend for help.

6. Photography & Music

Amateur Photographer: Hire a student or hobbyist to capture the day.

Playlist Instead of a DJ: Create a playlist and use a good speaker system.

7. Invitations & Programs

Digital Invites: Use free e-invite platforms like Evite or Canva.

Print at Home: Save money by designing and printing invitations yourself.

8. Focus on What Matters

Emphasize the meaning of the ceremony and your union, rather than perfection.

Create personal vows or involve meaningful rituals for a heartfelt touch.

By prioritizing essentials and tapping into your community for support, you can plan a beautiful wedding that aligns with your values and budget.